We have the tendency to attempt to fix others. Normally this is well intentioned and comes from our perspective and vision. It comes from our ability to see what they cannot, we are positioned from our angle where we can see them at their full potential. We can see what they can become if they start making different choices, if they are courageous enough to start making changes, if they are dedicated enough to make efforts for a better good in their lives. However, when they don't engage in these efforts and when they can't see what you see many of you get frustrated, distressed, and even depressed. Then you start making efforts to even subconsciously force them to do things differently. This gives me a glimpse of how God sees us from His perspective. He sees all the potential that we can achieve, only if we desire to believe and start taking steps to fulfill the purpose for what He created us. The difference is that He respects our free will and He is waiting for us to walk on the path that He designed for us. Our individual paths is our responsibility. And I wonder what are you not doing in your path because you are engaged in fixing someone elses life. How much effort and energy are you investing into fixing others. Assess your life and start living it at its fullest, it is your responsibility. While you are assessing your life just think about the potential that God sees from His perspective and live it. Give to yourself, love yourself, invest on yourself, you are worth it. Then you will become an effective agent of transformation to others.
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